读到这断关于婚姻的评论 - 只有爱是不够的，婚姻让爱情的变数曾大

"No one can really get ready for all of the eventualities of married life and family life, but it would be great if people stopped to think about some of the big topics that quite likely will appear in an average marriage: illness, lack of income, career changes, financial challenges, substance abuse and addictions of all kinds, division of domestic labor, sexual dysfunction, fertility and infertility, disputes in raising children, mental illness, problems with members of the extended family, and infidelity!

It’s great that love propels us into thoughts of a committed relationship. Few people, however, stop to think that this person they are in love with may NOT be the person with whom to build a lasting marriage! More people should face this before they even think about marriage!"

得不到婚姻的爱情确可以永恒，就是这个道理。精神世界没有物质世界的搀和,好控制多了。

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• 爱情是个大骗局，婚姻是个小骗局。That's why 大凡都结了。。。 -iamyournewfriend- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:20:23

• 婚姻是个Institution，走进去了难出来。爱情没有法律约束。 -莉莉百合- ♀ (40 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:29:01

• 爱情不是生活，生活是柴米油盐， -敢言- ♂ (144 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:25:06

• 小说里多的是啊。Ever happy after 或殉情出家的。 -莉莉百合- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:30:38

• 小说都是杜撰，现实生活中有这样的实例吗？ -敢言- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:33:48

• 我跑了。你说没有就没有吧。 -莉莉百合- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:37:34

• 没有就没有吧，你也不用跑啊～ -敢言- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:44:20

• 没有婚姻的爱情，或快或慢就成了路人。 -金色的麦田- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 13:17:01

• 不见得！关键是看爱的支点在哪里了，还有人的素质。我相信存在没有婚姻的爱情一定是非常牢固的。 -渊渊- ♂ (90 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 13:21:59

• 经典～～ -Jesslulu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 16:03:02

• 都是专家 -黑衣女侠- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 19:10:35