Be your own life designer to 怎么办好呢? 学诗男孩
It’s easy said than done. But in our mind, we, girls or women, should keep this word as our spiritual guidance and be strong to face our life at all times. Be your own life designer.
Once you decide how to live your own life, you don’t ask other’s opinions to guide yourself. You don’t seek power from outside to punish your kid’s father and you can walk away quietly if you don’t love the man any more and you also can decide to be the 3rd party in one family and challenge someone’s wife. No matter what you do, you are your own life designer and design the life you want to live and face the consequence bravely.
Once you know you are your own life designer, you don’t beg your man to be your financial supporter or you don’t want to marry someone who is only able to provide you financial security but nothing else.