shocked - Need help!

Something happened. My bf's mom came over to visit. When she walked into the house, she gave my bf (her son) a hug and kissed him on his lips! It was a quick kiss. But I was shocked! They did it so naturally like it's totally normal! I have never seen them kissing each other on the lips before!

I asked my bf what's going on. He said it's tradition. His mom always kiss them (including his brothers) like that.

I noticed that my bf does not want to show too much passion toward me when his mom is around. I asked him why and he said that our relationship should be private.

My bf's dad passed away long time ago. His mom never remarry and does not have a bf right now. She is almost 70.

But is that kind of behavior normal?

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• 太正常了 -塞上孤星- ♀ (42 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:44:38

• 回复：太正常了 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (40 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:47:28

• 别想太多了 -塞上孤星- ♀ (108 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:57:08

• 回复：别想太多了 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (167 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:59:03

• 没事啊，每家都有家庭传统 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:01:26

• 多交几个就有的是看了：) -罂粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:02:30

• 你爱他就允许他做他喜欢做的事情? -罂粟花- ♀ (15 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:01:40

• 回复：你爱他就允许他做他喜欢做的事情? -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:03:32

• 偶说的不是这意思， -罂粟花- ♀ (81 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:07:52

• o(∩_∩)o...哈哈 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:13:04

• 回复：偶说的不是这意思， -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (17 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:13:51

• 哈，当你有了儿子的时候，你就不会这样胡思乱想了， -把酒话桑麻- ♀ (116 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:51:08

• 回复：哈，当你有了儿子的时候，你就不会这样胡思乱想了， -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (47 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:52:36

• yes,very normal! -把酒话桑麻- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:54:09

• 见过，好象没人大惊小怪。 -罂粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:54:17

• 回复：见过，好象没人大惊小怪。 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (32 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:56:56

• 何况 -淘淘宝宝- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:11:53

• 这男孩很细心体贴，对他妈， -罂粟花- ♀ (105 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:52:33

• 回复：这男孩很细心体贴，对他妈， -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (91 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:53:25

• 吻礼有好几种的，见惯就不怪了：) -罂粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:55:19

• 回复：吻礼有好几种的，见惯就不怪了：) -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (63 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:56:03

• 唉，现实中没你好福气啊，有个金发碧眼的BF，只在教会和电影里看过。 -罂粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:00:44

• 回复：唉，现实中没你好福气啊，有个金发碧眼的BF，只在教会和电影里看过。 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (17 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:02:18

• 我把老公，情人，儿子都当儿子呵呵呵 -塞上孤星- ♀ (36 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:58:46

• 回复：我把老公，情人，儿子都当儿子呵呵呵 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (59 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:59:48

• 我儿子不让，我就不亲 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:02:14

• its ok, dont worry! -青柏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:53:44

• 回复：its ok, dont worry! -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (44 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:55:23

• 哈哈，笑死了，你那么在意就拉倒啦，都70岁的老太婆了，想那多有意思吗：) -罂粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:05:23

• 回复：哈哈，笑死了，你那么在意就拉倒啦，都70岁的老太婆了，想那多有意思吗：) -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (62 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:11:17

• 他们没上一张床吧？ -罂粟花- ♀ (94 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:15:04

• 回复：他们没上一张床吧？ -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (171 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:17:33

• 那就直接告诉你朋友说你不喜欢他们这样 -青柏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:16:33

• 回复：那就直接告诉你朋友说你不喜欢他们这样 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (81 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:18:18

• thats enogh -青柏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:28:39

• 回复：thats enogh -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (11 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:31:43

• 我说大妹子, 别听楼上那帮老太太的, 我都直起鸡皮疙瘩. -铁塔哥- ♂ (38 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:11:24

• 回复：我说大妹子, 别听楼上那帮老太太的, 我都直起鸡皮疙瘩. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (107 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:13:06

• 接个吻没啥了不起的，关键看他是否凡事都听他妈的 -舞鹤- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:16:05

• 的确与众不同,更何况他有意疏远你,这事我们男人不夹杂感情色彩. -铁塔哥- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:16:11

• 回复：的确与众不同,更何况他有意疏远你,这事我们男人不夹杂感情色彩. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (96 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:20:03

• 我没有什么理论,只是谈我个人的感受. -铁塔哥- ♂ (77 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:31:26

• 回复：我没有什么理论,只是谈我个人的感受. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (170 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:36:46

• Just don't ask, let it go, you won't get the truth -铁塔哥- ♂ (96 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:41:57

• 回复：Just don't ask, let it go, you won't get the truth -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (47 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:43:51

• 回复：的确与众不同,更何况他有意疏远你,这事我们男人不夹杂感情色彩. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (145 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:21:18

• 你好象不推理出他和他妈有一腿就没法说服自己：) -罂粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:24:10

• 回复：你好象不推理出他和他妈有一腿就没法说服自己：) -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:30:30

• 歧视啊，歧视 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:14:55

• 哈哈哈...... 哈哈哈...... -学诗男孩- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:32:11

• 别在这儿傻笑, 快找你蛐蛐大叔, 贫农大舅去. 今儿这是怎么了? -铁塔哥- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:37:03

• 铁疙瘩一块儿，哪儿来的鸡皮疙瘩？ -铁老石- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:41:27

• 干嘛这么小看人, 俺塔上老落凤凰. -铁塔哥- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:46:36

• It is kind of sick! Something is wrong. -longhand- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 21:28:45

• At least your bf is a Mommy's little boy to be sure. Walk away f -泡桐花开- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 01:21:13

• very normal -howcan^- ♀ (156 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 06:09:30

• 回复：very normal -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (51 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 15:12:23

• u hv a long way to go dealing with ur future mil. this's -quark001- ♂ (61 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 08:11:39

• any advise? -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 15:11:37