It is also VERY depressing for me that WOMEN always want a GUARANTEE of LONG term relationship before they could have sex with MEN.
Isn't that why the lying was invented?
So that we could feed each other what we WANT to hear in the SHORT term and in the end, we found each other in deep shit in the LONG TERM?
After all, we are all in this world that is full of conflicts between man-man, man-women, women-women. If you think you will be happy after you find a women, think it again.
Those gays were happy until they all got HIV+.
There ARE ALWAYS a BALANCING force to regulate each person's desire from EXTERNAL so that the world is NOT out of balance.
How ever, those who were being balanced by the EXTERNAL forces are the ones that are NOT happy. That's why most people are NOT happy because God has created this universe that is full of BALANCING mechanisms.
The true happiness can only happen if one could BALANCE him/herself from INTERNAL.
For example, if you want to use marriage to FORCE a guy NOT go fuck around, that guy will suffer and your life will be riddled with lies and cheatings.....
You can only expect a guy who does NOT want to fuck around from INTERNAL BALANCE, and those kind of guys are HARD to find.
The same way happens to women also.
If a women has INTERNALLY BALANCED out her FEAR of man going away, she is FREE and her life will be happy also.
But that's NOT what everybody is doing.
Everybody is NOT developing their own INTERNAL balance, and EVERYBODY is SEEKING EXTERNAL forces. Men use guns and knives to force women to have sex with them, and women use marriage to regulate men so that it will really HURT when he walks away. None of these will work at all and it makes EVERYBODY living in a mental prison.
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