昨天听来的：慈爱，怜悯，和恩惠

恩惠 Grace 是: He gives you something that you don't deserve.
怜悯 Mercy 是: He doesn't give you something that you deserve.
而之所以有怜悯和恩惠都是因为有慈爱 Agape.

推广到人们的家庭夫妻关系，觉得的很有用。
宽恕 Forgiveness 就是: You don't give something that he/she deserves.
支持 Support 就是: You give something that he/she doesn't deserve.
而之所以你对另一方有支持和原谅，就是因为你爱他/她(love him/her).

这样夫妻就能够知道，take nothing for granted.
这种理解包容和为对方牺牲，是因为爱对方，才不惜花自己的时间，精力，乃至生命。所以夫妻都应该学会感恩，互相尊重，这就是爱的内涵之一了。

在下正在学习这个，同时拿来给大家分享一下。

Have a wonderful week!