回复：男人是需要温柔，但我们 . . .

更需要的是 LP becomes our soulmate and "best friend" and understands us. Guys have 哥们和酒肉朋友. However, there are things we simply can NOT share with 哥们和酒肉朋友. Guys are supposed to be tough. But we do have feelings and emotions because we are human too. We can not share feelings/emotions with 哥们和酒肉朋友. Understanding and supportive are ultimate 温柔 to a guy. That is my 2-cents.