If his wife spends time on housework and kids, or they spend tim

If his wife spends time on housework and kids,he would have more time to spend on his wife. Better, if his wife and he spend time together on housework and kids, that would share not only work but feeling.

His wife is not baby to be taken care of. Key issue is her spirit. If she believe she is a baby, this would be a dead end. So see later