写给令一半的话，很无奈，也很伤感

quarrelled again just because I was playing after work, after I cleaned dishes and done homework with kids. Below is the word I want to say to her, but I konw she won't listen. Post here to see if I need to improve in my marriage life.

"you don't care what I did for the family, so you care to criticize my play. what is the point, why live with me? Why not go find a place that you enjoy, instead of quarrelling with me all the time??

Recall all quarrels in our life together, how many times is due to my criticizing on you? how many is due to your criticizing? I don't hope any change from you. But if we keep silent, then our marrige may last longer, which is better for kids, even though none of us feel good. I can't live a life you assign to me, not only because I am myself, but also, I am sure some of your suggestion doesn't make sense at all -- I don't want to quarrel with you on this, no point to do that, it is just different understanding of the world. The only thing I want to say is, if you want to be happy, work your way out, why force others to sacrifice in making it possible for you? Friends stay together because they mutually make each other happy, marriage is so even more."