They still had other choices.

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In both cases, the ladies chose to live the rest of their lives unmarried. They could also choose marriages or to share their lives with someone else in some other way. They just didn't.

Tom's wife chose to marry Tom, so she had to face what that marriage brought her.

Ji's wife might not choose her marriage with Ji at will, but this shackle for Chinese women has gone for a long time.