回复：回复：精神和肉体都背叛了他,而且让他知道了真相,这是男人最大的耻辱.

the most important thing in a relationship is communication (and communication, and communication...)
why don't you tell your loved one what you wrote above?
tell him it's your intention that you'll 想要尽一切可能尝试弥补挽救。。。 (and the so-called "身体出轨" happened when you were vulnerable)
trust me, in true love you should be able to find forgiving