给大家推荐一本书

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by Dr. John Gottman

以下是这本书的介绍：

...This book guide you through a series of self-test designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.

You'll also learn:

More sex doesn't necessary improve a marriage;
Frequent arguing will not lead to divorce;
Financial problems do not always spell trouble in a relationship;
Wives who make sour facial expressions wen their hu*****ands talk are likely to be separated within four years;
There is a reason hu*****ands withraw from arguments---and there's a way around it.

Dr. Gottman tell you how to recognize attitudes that doom a marriage---contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling---and provides practical exercises, quizzes, tips,and techniques that will help you understand and help make the most of your relationship...
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What help me most is a realization that my hu*****and and I naturally prefer different ways to solve problems. 知己知彼。:)