here is his mistake:

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回答: 那要看他等了多久， 由 好看？ 于 2009-01-20 12:06:07

I am going to be critical here, hope you do not mind,
His debt to the girl's father is financial, although he had promised to marry her, he should know a financial debt can not be repaid by emotions. If he tries, he will hurt himself, and both of the girls. Living in modern society, he should have enough courage to break his promise, which is unfair to him and the girl to start with, and repay his financial debt with monetary means.

I do not have answer for your question about them being "just friends", I guess it depends on both of them.

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• 回复：here is his mistake: -婉如清扬- ♀ 给 婉如清扬 发送悄悄话 婉如清扬 的博客首页 (88 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 12:59:12

• she has to live for herself, why care about what others think? -好看？- ♀ 给 好看？ 发送悄悄话 好看？ 的博客首页 (128 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:01:31

• If "other people" means her spouse, then -好看？- ♀ 给 好看？ 发送悄悄话 好看？ 的博客首页 (233 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:12:25

• 同意，除了自己的想法，还是要照顾一下当前的他的想法。其实有时 -fpxjz- ♀ 给 fpxjz 发送悄悄话 (48 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:24:48

• 看来我和你会做同样的选择， -好看？- ♀ 给 好看？ 发送悄悄话 好看？ 的博客首页 (43 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:28:44

• 谢谢, -婉如清扬- ♀ 给 婉如清扬 发送悄悄话 婉如清扬 的博客首页 (34 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:36:17

• Thanks, -婉如清扬- ♀ 给 婉如清扬 发送悄悄话 婉如清扬 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:23:08

• 那就跟着感觉走好了，good luck! -好看？- ♀ 给 好看？ 发送悄悄话 好看？ 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:26:37

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