警察的行为固然感动人，但觉得他不是很善解人意。

不能在他最痛苦的时刻陪伴左右将是她的终身遗憾，不能在他的最后几天，与他共享天伦之乐，体验父爱，会是女儿永远的心病。

about LZ yourself, if you decide to get back together with your hu*****and, it is preferrable to have him come come back to the US, instead of you go back there, in my opinion. The reason is the big environment is not good, if young beautiful girl present themself to him, it will take very strong will power for him to resist, it is better of to get him away from the source.

however, if you both feel staying in China is the best for your family, you two need to work out a plan to ensure your financial well being, because the longer you are not working, the more power you are giving to him.