回复：大排期马上开始了，教训是什么？

I am even worse than your hu*****and. I stayed here for nearly ten years. However, I did not get GC because I do not like staying here. I did not find a good job in China.

Follow the your mood rather than current. US is not a final destination. Mybe you will go back home after you are US citizen. Make you happy wherever you are.