1. "因为昨天开会,当着很多大头儿的面" 2."没有一个主管希望别人这样叫她,尽管她二十多岁也罢,等你到了那个地位,你就明白了。。。" what you said is a general sugestion for people who just arrived here. For those who have lived here long enough, we know what we need to do. : D