My thoughts

First, if you still want to keep the family, do not let your hu*****and go back to China alone. Either nobody returns or the whole family returns together. I have seen too many couples (almost all) got a bitter result when only one party returns. A couple should never be separated. It is never good. Second, you have a decent life so far. Your hu*****and seems a very nice and successful person. Do not use money to measure the value of your hu*****and if you truly love him. You can still find a job yourself. I have a full-time job as a lawyer so you can imagine how busy I am at work. But I do the same housework as you do – laundry, ironing, cleaning bathroom, kitchen and whole house by myself every weekend since my hu*****and is very busy and with a lot of pressure at work. I sometimes do feel tired. But I also feel happy to do it since I love my hu*****and and the family so much. I see everything we have had in our life is the result of hard work of both of us. I treasure them.