他们有很多的拜访者，他们每次都把车停在我的私人车位。我不在乎这，只要我下班回来我有地方停我车。
但是事态变糟糕了，很多次我下班回家，我家门前停了陌生人的车。我很不情愿的躯壳他们的门让他们移车。每次我都礼貌的告诉他们客人的车因该停在客人车位，客人不了解，主人可以提议下。但是他们一点都不管。这种现象持续着。
我开始在那些陌生车前窗前留条子，告诉他们社区规定。左边的邻居告诉我右边的邻居清洁工也瞎在他们的车位，她也留了条子。我们可以直接喊拖车把陌生人的车拖掉。
一次我回家从车里走出，女主人的母亲喊住我，理直气壮的对我说我的房子的主人，一个老的俄国人答应她停在我的私人车位，考虑到她的方便。莫名其妙，我心想。我说我在她女儿搬进他们房子前就买了/搬进了我的房子。我就是房主，不知她在说谁。然后她软了下来，问我她能不能停在我的车位。我跟她说，社区规定客人的车子因该停在客人停车位。而且房子末端，4-5个车位外有空的停车位，她可以停在那。
对于很多自私的人，别人的好意都是应该的。我现在想想人真的不能太好，被别人占便宜。
Both side neighbors were great when the time I moved in my house. Then my right side neighbor's family size growing into 6 and they moved out for a bigger space. Then new couple with a young boy moved in.
They have a lot visitors, baby sitters, house cleaners, kids from previous marriages, ex partners, parents...and park cars in my parking spaces. Every house is assigned limited space for parking when the house is bought. I don't mind if someone parks car in my parking space as long as I have the space to park my car when I drive back from work.
Then the situation got worse, many times when I drove back home and couldn't find the place to park my car and had to knock their doors to request them to move the cars away. Each time I also told them that there are plenty of guest parking spaces not far from the house and it would be great they inform their guests. They seemed never considered. One time their guest car parked so close to my car and my car was scratched so heavily when it was pulled out. I got really upset.
So whenever I saw their cars were parked in my parking space, I left a printed note on the windshield. My left side neighbor told me the same bad experience too. She later told me that we could call towing truck to tow the unknown car on the private parking space.
One time the woman’s mother stopped me when I just walked out from car and righteously told me that an old Russian man, the house owner of my house told her that she could park at my parking space for her convenience. I told her I bought/ moved in my house long before her daughter moved into theirs, there was no such person. Then she asked me if she can still park her car in my parking space. I told her, it's better for her to park her car in the guest parking lot or an parking space in front of the end unit which is most time empty.
A lot of obnoxious people take others' niceness as granted. I now think it is not good to be too nice.
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