Oh, My! It's a long article! I only read the English part:)

I'm not a fan of any stones:) I didn't have a diamond ring for my engament, or any ring for that matter. We didn't have wedding rings either. We went to the civic center to get a marriage license and got married right there, with only two of us, a witness, who worked at the office, and a clerk acting as the marriage officiant. We didn't have a wedding ceremony or a honeymoon either. We were two poor graduate students:) We've been married for 22+ years, still counting~~~