How about this

来源: 于 2012-06-19 19:59:10 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读：次

You don’t need to take a side - I am on your side.  I am a Chinese too. You know I don’t give a damn about patriotism and I often give Chinese government a middle finger. I care about truth.  Did your family suffer because of the conflict?