Do not cry. find a solution.

He probably is not as bad as you feel. There must be a lot of good reasons that you decided to marry him. And the reasons are still there but now you see more of his weakness. Deal with it. but not fight with it. Continue to care for yourself and your hu*****and and let him deal with his families. Do not worry too much about money. With $3000 in the bank, it will be a lot way before you can buy house. You are better off without thinking about house or money. Let him deal with it. But do not borrow money from your credit card nor your sister, especially. He wants something. Fine. Find a way and help himself.