I can't have the答案 without the help from him
It's true that a family made up at least two people. Even I want to have a family and maintain the family I have with him, but if he doesn't want, then it won't work. I told him many times that it bothers me that he and her are getting so close, but he doesn't care about it at all.
I want him to be sure what he really wants and make a choice, that is all.