Thanks for 分享! It is really out of our control for who we met.

 The good things is that you are doing well now.

Forgiving is the hardest thing one can do. I have no problem to give others money, but forgiving is harder than giving money.  Forgiving needs internal strength.

However Forgiving  itself is very powerful, it is almost a declaration of "you can't hurt me anymore!  I forgive you because I am stronger and I move on.  You might didn't know better at that time. I will let go all my anger and resent towards you. may Heaven bless you."

 

The reason I write this assay is to share. A lot of people have similar experiences. To live as a victim does not worth it.

A hearty hug from me!

 

Again, thanks for sharing your feelings and story!