I have only one suggestion to you

Think about yourself first, be prepared. If you send a man back home, you are setting him free, no mattere how strong your relationship is right now.

I am not trying to scare you, but that is what is happening to me now. I am filing for a divorce, and he is turning into a real jerk threating me that he would make me have no place to stay here.

I am not saying your hu*****and will like that, but you have to put yourself and your needs first before everybody else, I learned from my mistake, but it's too late.