I was just joking

This guy is sadistic. I mean, it does hurt at first when someone calls your name and suggests torture. But I don't care because I know it won't affect my life and my well being. The real life is not affected by the insults hurled on me or you, or anyone on this forum. You have to be a little thick skinned.

Actually my life is fine. Nothing is wrong with living within your means. It's not a trashy life if you're not wealthy. And I don't feel envy of the woman you mentioned here. She has problems, either illegal or immoral or embezzlement, that's for sure. Otherwise she won't be under custody or house arrest for that long. Innocent people wouldn't be on this crossfire.