回复：有懂心理分析的吗?救救我! (请班主务必不要删)

No matter how successful or good looking this guy is, from my point of view, he is a big jerk. Next time if he mentions his wife to you again, just tell him that you are not interested in this subject and you don't have time to listen to his boring story. He just tries to use his wife to manipulate you. You, or any woman deserve a much better man than this guy. Perhaps you should go back to your hu*****and, if he is not a jerk like your current lover.
His wife didn't do anything wrong. It is your fault that you loved someone's hu*****and. Every one is different; you have no reason to envy his wife. Perhaps you can build a better life with your hu*****and.