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生活中你遇到每个人其实都有一个原因

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生活中你遇到每个人其实都有一个原因
来源: 话多必失06-08-14 07:03:01
   
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生活中你遇到每个人其实都有一个原因,短暂的陪伴你一个季节,长久的,陪伴你的一生。分清楚他(她)是哪一类人,你就会知道该如何正确对待那个人。某种原因,这个人来到你的生活,通常情况下,他(她)是来满足你所表达的需要的。他们的到来,或者是帮你度过难关,或者给你一些指导和支持;精神上,情绪上或者仅仅体力上帮助你。他们就像是上天派来帮助你的,他们也确实是来帮助你的。当你需要他们的时候,他们就在哪儿。随后,在你没有做错任何事情的时候,或者他们觉得是时候离开的时候,告诉或者不告诉你,你们的关系就此结束。有时候是因为他们的死去,有时候他们只是想要离开,有时候他们只是想你自己能够独立。我们必须明白的是,我们的需要已经满足,我们的愿望已经达到,他们做了他们能够做的。你所祈求的已经有了答案,现在,是继续往前走的时候了。

生活中你遇到的每个人其实都有一个原因,你与他们一起分享,学习和成长。他们或者带给你心灵的安静,或者让你欢笑。他们教你许多你不曾做过的事情。他们带给你许多你自己都不敢相信的快乐。请相信,你所经历的一切都是真的,但是,也请记住,一切的发生是有原因的!

生活中的朋友会带给你许多的经验,为了有一个你自己的坚强的精神支柱,你所要做的就是经历生活,爱那个人,学会成长。我们常说爱是盲目的,但是朋友会令我们受益终身。


People come into your life for a REASON, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a REASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
People come into your life for a REASON, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a REASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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