well, nice article with the song...however, I cant really agree with that...
I can never agree that one should behind the other's back and feel cold...
I hope you do not just keep your appreciation to her inside but tell her now and again...maybe that's what supports your wife to keep on.
Anyway, just cant help thinking I will never be scarificing like your wife---yes, sacrificing, that's what your words make me feel.., two people choose together is to support to share...but not to give up one's glory to enhance the other's...
Random thoughts, no offence..