1943年2月17日,宋美龄一行自海德公园搭火车前往华盛顿。下午5点抵达华盛顿联合车站,站内站外人头攒动,挤满了欢迎的人群。让宋美龄受宠若惊的是,罗斯福总统把她迎进座车中,把她接往白宫。并且,这一住就是11天。
但是,优雅的客人也有让主人吃惊的时候。罗斯福夫妇在私人小餐厅内举行“家庭晚餐”,宴请宋美龄。席间,罗斯福问她和蒋介石如何处理战时煤矿工人的罢工。宋美龄用—个涂色的长指甲姿式优美地在自己的脖子上划了一道,意思是“砍头”。这使同桌的所有人惊讶不已。罗斯福为了掩饰尴尬,假装大笑起来。罗斯福夫人埃莉诺在私下里说:“她对民主制度能够讲得很漂亮,但是她不知道怎样实行民主制度。”
英国卫报是这样讲的:
Her (宋美龄) address to Congress in February 1943, 14 months after Pearl Harbor, was described thus by Newsweek: "The effect was enchanting…..” She appeared on the cover of Time magazine twice.
President Franklin Roosevelt was not so easily charmed and, before long, his Treasury Secretary Henry Morgenthau observed, was "just crazy to get her out of the country". Sterling Seagrave, author of The Soong Dynasty (1985) tells how, when dining with the president, Mei-king (宋美龄) was asked how the generalissimo would deal with a wartime strike of coalminers. Everyone at the table gasped when [she] silently drew a long, lacquered nail across her throat ... Eleanor [Roosevelt] privately remarked: "She can talk beautifully about democracy, but does not know how to live democracy."