Even though it sounds like a guilty plea,

I would still get a lawyer to get you a better deal from the court. Stuff like this has very serious consequeince, some of which you may not realize now. For example, (God forbid) if you were to get a divorce, how do you think you could keep custody of the kids? If I were the hu*****and, I would say that you were not a qualified mother because you left kids at home to shop for new clothes for yourself.