you need to calm down, if you can't control your

emotion, you really need an attorney. If mother really loves the kid, not a acholic, not a smoker, doesn't do drugs, have a stable job. You may have slim chance. You need to find the best attorney in town (normally this means the most expensive attorney in town, and the attorney must better be in the same district you would file the case) and you may have chance to get out of this mess