回复：如何传递出庭通知给国内人？

類似與您的情況以前討論過
您應該先閱讀這個資料,
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/new_york/nyart34

基本上除非您能親自交給您的先生或是他的律師並且獲得對方簽字認可收到這個Divorce Summons ,您這個案件辦不起來.
New York Divorce law requires that the defendant be personally served with the divorce papers, unless the court grants some other means of service. Note that there are special requirements for service of process in a divorce action. See C.P.L.R. Sec. 308 and D.R.L. Sec. 232.
C.P.L.R. Sec. 308 請見
http://www.jdbar.com/Statutes/cplr-308.html