Ethics Vs Law
This is an Ethics vs Law problem we all need to deal with. Personally, I dont go after someone's retirement funds or children's college funds. That is unnecessary and I dont believe 赶尽杀绝,斩草除根。
己所不欲勿施于人! If somebody go after your retirement money, would you like it?
Once you put your hu*****and in the corner and leave him no choice, he will make your divorce harder. To the end, all the money you can get after attorney fee are generally less.
Most problems can be solved by asking nicely.
With all the respect, I think your post is worthless like most divorce posts here.