回复：回复：我只能把小的送回国，

Thanks. I had talked to him many times, none of them had a happy end. Of cause I should take half of the responsibility to this situation. I can not do anything for him without being loved. We had agreed that I will stay at home untill my little one is 3 year-old. Then I go out find a job, the little one goes to daycare. If I get a job now, he will pay me less alimony and child suport when divorce. I can not let him off lightly.