回复：没有要跟您抬扛的意思，就是觉得不忿。

I believe you already made this thing big by leaving trackable evidence to her and potentially the police. What she did maybe wrong but you did not call the police and had no evidence at hand. There are many ways you can get her but you choose not to. You turned around and invented your own vengence. What you did is also wrong but you left behind evidence for her. Now who is at advantage here?

Single old cat is trying to teach you to do things in legal, American ways, not about emotions.