你应该可以分一些的。具体多少很难说。

第一，婚后收入是婚姻财产，婚后买的房子也是婚姻财产，不管钱和房子在谁的名下。婚前的房子，如果婚后你有劳动贡献，也是婚姻财产。都参与分配。不知道这些房子的来龙去脉，很难得说的准，但是就你所说，结婚25年，你又做了很多房子的工作，这些房子应该是参与分配的。

第二，参与分配不等于都是对半分，可能你多一点比例，可能他多一点比例，具体比例是多少，在纽约州有一个因素表，很长啊，十六个因素，每个因素都要分析，真正打起官司来很琐碎的。见篇末。

我觉得你们不熟悉法律，不知道自己应拿多少，互相猜忌，很难达成协议。如果不想打官司的话，可以找divorce mediator（离婚协调律师），这个律师是中立者，负责回答你们法律问题，协调你们两个人的谈判，最后帮助你们填表交表等等。这个钱可能还是应该花的。

The 16 Factors Considered in Equitable Distribution

1. How much money and property each person had when they got married, and how much they have now.
2. How long the marriage lasted and the age and health of both people.
3. Whether one person needs to keep the family home or other belongings for the sake of the children.
4. Whether one person will lose inheritance or pension benefits because of the divorce.
5. Whether one person will lose health insurance because of the divorce.
6. Whether one person will get spousal support (alimony) payments from the other.
7. Whether one person contributed to the acquisition of property even if they don’t have their name on it (like by being a stay-at-home parent).
8. Whether the property is easy to sell (liquid) or harder to sell (non-liquid).
9. What the financial situation will be for each person after the divorce?
10. Whether it is difficult to put a value on some assets like a business or a professional license.
11. How taxes will affect each person’s financial situation.
12. Whether either person wasted (spent or lost) assets on purpose during the marriage.
13. Whether either person gave away or sold the property for less than it was worth to try to keep it away from the other person in the divorce.
14. Whether there was any domestic violence between the two people.
15. If the couple has a pet, the court will consider what is best for the pet.
16. Any other factors that the court decides are fair and reasonable to consider.