应该找对方保险公司索赔。

What you can get: 

Medical cost:  if you get the payout, remember you have to reimburse your health insurance company their expense. 

Loss of Income: days away from work. 

Pain and suffering:  medical cost x (3 to 5), start with 5 times, and negotiate down. 

Loss of Consortium: loss of family time, such as missed vacation and extra expense for child care etc.