it is not that bad.

来源: 2004-12-08 20:53:28 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:
I slapped my boyfriend in front of cops, and he bleed.

I hire a lawyer after I was bailed out of the jail, and the lawyer did deal with the district attorney, they give me the charge disturbing peace, the lawyer said the charge is like I had a party, the neighbor complain, then police give me a ticket.

after that, I did 30 days of community service for the change of the reduction of charge.

after one and half year, I passed my greencard interview, I honestly explained why I was arrested, why I slapped my ex bf. I said that in my country, it is normal to slap him if he cheated on me.

the officer laughed, said" this is USA, the rule should change. but I let you pass the interview."

Let your lawyer do the best to reduce the charge, then everything will be OK.

You will go to anger management class, and you will do community service, and you will get probition. but in the future, if you do not do that again, everything will be ok.