回复：继子女经常辱骂我和丈夫，该怎么办

Well, there are many choices.

First, your hu*****and can give up the custody of these two children to their biological mother.

If their mother doesn't want them, and your hu*****and and you don't care about what happened to them, you can give them up for adoption.

If your hu*****and and/or you are still care about them, then stop *****ing and try to find a way to gain their respect.

By the way, it is hard to believe that "两个小孩用辱骂、破坏衣物各种手段欺辱我，导致我流产。", unless they physically abused you.