刚好看到小活在，酝酿了已久的歌尽管还粗糙，也不管了！她刚刚送走儿子迈入新生活，也许需要些许安慰。
弹琴唱歌从来不是我擅长的，但在唱坛，表达敬意只能用歌声了。
蕾姐说我“就拣漂亮妹妹们爱”， 这个我不否认。但在小活这里这样概括不够全面。认识小活并不是突然的一个瞬间，“一见钟情“的那种。很久就注意到她纯净清澈，真诚悦耳的歌声，然后慢慢地在她一言一行之中，在偶尔的互动之中，感受到她心底的真诚，友善，勤奋，才华……曾随手帮她改一下贴子的代码，真正的举手之劳，她会想着回送一首歌表达感谢。我们也曾在某个活动中合作，互相交换电子邮件，也是很愉快的过程。但对她真正的了解还是从她随手写的贴文中。她曾分享过很多她的生活。同她的歌声一样，她的文字也纯净，流畅。后来知道她是个漂亮妹子其实已经没有影响了！
热爱生活的她是一个很有爱心，也有耐心的好妈妈。一儿一女她称为果果，肉肉——开心果，心头肉。她和孩子有着亲密的互动，两个孩子健康快乐。父母，先生的爱她也会心怀感念，对朋友她真诚无私……工作也是认真对待，有时我都会觉得她是不是太认真了！
大概上面我把小活写成了“阶若”，一个严肃不苟的人了，她其实也能搞怪，是有幽默感的人。有人还记得她“神奇的袜子“么？
我更喜欢“小活”这个名字，可爱，活泼，活力……但也有着小活儿太多，忙活人的意味。不知是否因此改成了“阶若”。
问了一下AI：
阶若之名，取其阶而有序，若水而无争。进而不躁，退而不惧，步步高升，温润以成。寓意人生如阶，行稳致远；心境似若，澹泊明志。
You've Got A Friend by Carole King
When you're down and troubled and you need some love and care,
and nothing, nothing is going right,
close your eyes and think of me and soon I will be there
to brighten up even your darkest night.
You just call out my name, and you know wherever I am,
I'll come running to see you again.
Winter, spring, summer, or fall, all you have to do is call
and I'll be there
You've got a friend.
If the sky above you grows dark and full of clouds,
And that old north wind begins to blow,
Keep your head together and call my name out loud.
Soon you'll hear me knockin' at your door.
You just call out my name, and you know wherever I am,
I'll come running to see you again.
Winter, spring, summer, or fall, all you have to do is call
and I'll be there, yes, I will.
Now ain't it good to know that you've got a
friend
when people can be so cold. They'll hurt you, yes, and desert you.
And, take your soul if you let them.
Oh, but don't you let them.
You just call out my name, and you know wherever I am,
I'll come running to see you again.
Winter, spring, summer, or fall, all you have to do is call
and I'll be there
You've got a friend.
