请不要再麻烦自己或父母be nice to them. It is not because you guys are not nice enough to them. The truth is they are not the nice people to appreciate your kindness in the first place. 爱自己,善待父母! 性格决定命运.不要总抱怨自己的性格软弱.如果不象这样窝囊的过下去,自己要先改变一下处理问题的方式. 如果自己都不爱惜自己,别人怎么会来爱惜你?当然,父母除外.