回复：well, 又回到老问题上了，这些你婚前知道吗？

I didn't know that 100k debt.

His mom was working before we got married, and then she had accident and injured herself, so she stopped working and started receiving social benefit.

His younger brother is 25 yr old now. He dropped out of school and had a low income job before we were married, so he didn't need support at that time. One year ago, he decided go back to college.