回复：我的建议是--- good one

add one more point---- by any chance that he changes his mind and wants to go back to you----- do not accept, because he will change again. by that time, all your life will be gone, gone with wind.

be strong. I am a single mom with 8 years old daughter. life is so good after you get your pride back. sadness, helpless, hopeless...what-ever-less, are not important, most important is when the moment you get your pride back, you regain your life back!!!!

take care of your job. this man will not pay the child support. i put my word here. you have three things left-- your health, current job, and the child. take a good care of them, you will have a lot more soon!!!!

suggestion - take a good care of your job, don't bring your attitude to your work. seek oppotunities to advance your career, use all your time/energy to learn new skills to make job secure, when you can't hold any more, let the tears out....

nobody is perfect, don't blame yourself too much, learn what you need to learn, move on. evrything will be fine. tk care.