回复：他老公看样子是不会配合解决问题的，要不然怎么老躲避

The problem is: she has kept on solving their problem in the same way. Possibly, that is why he tried to keep away from her. They both need to do some self-reflection and think about what they have done wrong to each other.

I think she may start making sincere apologies and changing herself. Both changes and apologies are necessary, need to occur at the same time.