回复：I am at the exact same situation as yours. My first one is 2.

My hu*****and and I both working full time and he has long working hour.  He reach home almost 11pm everyday.  So, most of the time, I am the one who take care the baby.  Very tired and financial is also a issue now.  I wish to have another one cause my baby is lonely.  Still thinking about it.  Really happy about you have a good positive thinking!!