you try it.

For those who cannot stop criticizing Yingying, if nothing else, at least you are committing the very fault you are accusing Yingying of -- being judgmental, not putting yourself in others' shoes, not letting things go, imposing your own life style/principles upon others, being condescending...-- all and all you've said of her.

Don't you see the double standard you are using when you are unleashing all your speculative comments imbued with your idiosyncratic understanding, preference, and oftentimes biases? 

Whether you agree or disagree with what she did, that's her life. If "understanding" and "respect" for Siwei is what you think Yingying should have given Siwei, maybe you should spare some of it for Yingying now.