这句话看了，真让人觉得她的不由自主，情非所愿的不得以，心里为她难过：

Particularly since I have a terminal disease, this is the person who at some point will take over the primary parenting, and it's important to me that he heal, if he needs to。

不知道她如果没有病的话，会如何反映？会像希拉里，把重心移到政治上，仍然忍受？