回复：如果他没有可能搬到你在的州，你就不要多想了。搬吧。除非

89MM, at the time he was moving away, he wanted to divorced me but I didn't agree. We had a big arguement during last Christmas. In recent months, our relationship has been improved. I think the reason I am hesitating is I'm making the sacrifice and what I can get back in return from him. My current job is better.