MM, you need to do your own homework

there will be many people who want to take advantage of you, your lawyers will be one of them. You have to show them that you have enough knowledge that they can not fool you around. go to library or book store, do your home work first, write down all your questions.
Many many lawyers offer first time free consultation, try to take advantage of this. Bring your list of questions each time when you go to the first time free consultation, update your question, bring the new list to the next first time free consultation...and so on.

OK, girls here, don't call me cheating...my lawyer friend taught me this, she is the real BI :P