男人那个:"Could you take the big thing out from your packet of your

My Ex (my boy's father) was my first date. After almost two months out, like watching movie, walking, studing, talking...One night, we had a very tight hug, then I noticed something between us which it was not comfortable. I asked him, "Could you take the big thing out from your packet of your pant?" He didn't answer my question. I know that mean (男人那个) after at least one more month later.

So stubid of me...