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Hello Mr u2ben

I sorry for my bad english, this is my first time writing this way and I cannot write chinese on my computer i am a student. This I hope is also my last time. I usually don't have time for this sort of thing but my girlfriend reads lots of times and tells me about some of the things she reads, and she wanted me to say something after we talked about what you wrote.

She actually likes the story of saving chinese man - i don't mind it either now that i have read some of it too. It not great but not so bad either. My girlfriend and i both come from familys where father cheated, mother finds out, parents divorce, all the family members are sad. Chinese people no different from other people in other countries every body country's people sometime cheat and divorce, but "culturally" now there is a problem in china.

my uncle says his rich clients in business say there is real pressure. Guys who don't drink and smoke and flirt and try for mistress aren't cool. people say are gays.

First，This lady not saying chinese or chinese men are bad or she hate chinese men only that there is a problem. Second this is probably her first time writing such things - this is her hobby, what she enjoys, and she don't get paid - just fun. Third you say you are a academic. Then act like one, if you don't like her story then criticize with the idea of helping to improve not be rude and hurt her feelings, be objective. Fourth，I say to my girlfriend (about you and the ugly way you write) and i say to you (about this lady's story): If you don't like what he or she say then don't read that person anymore; if you can't say anything good to help writer (and readers) then don't talk like a donkey - donkey get to work with other work.

I bet you are a masochist. you like to hurt your eyes with her story. You must be a guy who likes to go to the dentist just so you can say it hurt and you like it.

You have my promise that i will never read ANYTHING you say and I promise I won't write you again. I am sorry to make a little fun of you, but you need to be nice to people.

ps I don't think she was serious about being famous like "66" just joking just hoping with smile. she has a good heart